2012年12月2日星期日

15 Ways To Know If A Girl Loves You Truly Before She Spoils Your Life


Boys feel perplexed when they are asked to judge a girl. They find it extremely difficult to know whether a girl is into him seriously or she is just playing with them. This is the matter of extreme worry if the boy seriously and madly loves that particular girl.
Here in this article I reveal you 15 ways to know and judge a girl before she ruins your life and play with your feelings. People generally feel girls are very sensitive and boys are the tough going guys. Yes, it's true that boys are tough and strong guys but when it comes to love, they are the most sensitive about their lover.
A girl's behavior and her attitude towards you, reveals the way she feels about you. It also depicts whether she is interested in you or she is just playing with you. Sometimes what happens is, the girl loves you but she cannot express her feelings. This article also helps you to find out the hidden feelings in girl's heart.
If you get the positive answer out of this, it is highly advisable to be loyal to the girl who loves you truly and selflessly but if you find the negative outcome, then I would strongly advise you dump that girl before she spoils you completely.
Here are the 15 ways to judge a girl:
1. Ask her what does she look for into a boy? Is it money, looks, power, status or nature?
Outcome: Her answer will reveal a lot about her nature and thinking. It depicts whether she gives importance to love, looks, character, money or power.
2. Ask her if she likes you?
Outcome: If she says yes casually, then she does not love you rather if she finds it difficult to answer this, then she love you.
3. Ask her what does she respect you for? What does she like about you?
Outcome: If she lists out the things clearly about you, then she really love you. If she takes time to think and say about you, then she's bluffing you.
4. Ask her what does she feel about you?
Outcome: If she is clear what actually she feels about you then you can move ahead with this girl because she is in love with you, if not then leave the topic her itself.
5. Tell her that you will invite her in your marriage, ask her if she would come?
Outcome: If she says no or keep numb, then she is in love with you but if she says yes, 'I would attend your marriage', that means she is not serious about you.
6. Ask her if you can come to her home or at least ask her to introduce you to her parents.
Outcome: If she agrees to introduce you to her parents, then she is serious about you and believes that may be you want to talk to her parents for marriage. If not then it means that she doesn't want you to meet her parents.
7. Talk to her on several topics in a single day. The next day you meet, ask her about something that you have discussed yesterday.
Outcome: If she remembers all or at least a part of what you said yesterday, then she is interested in you.
8. Send her messages regularly for 15 days or call her daily with out missing out a single day. On the 16th day, don't give her message or don't call her.
Outcome: If she is in love with you and is serious about you, then she would surely ask you the reason for not sending her message. If she doesn't even remember that you did not send her the message, then she is not at all bothered about you.
9. Take her frequently for a cup of coffee. Observe her behavior when it comes to paying the bill.
Outcome: If she feels a little embarrassed or uncomfortable that every time you are paying the bill, then she cares for you because she does not like your spending of money needlessly. If she does not feel anything about your paying off the bill, then she does not love about you.
10. Take her for some shopping. Ask her to accompany you in your shopping. Select a beautiful branded shirt for yourself but pretend as if you are not buying the shirt because it's much expensive than your budget.
Outcome: Now, if her love is true for you and she is serious about you, then she would try her level best to gift that to you. That reveals her selfless and in depth love for you.
11. Find out whether she remembers your birthday, wishes you on every possible occasion,

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2012年11月29日星期四

3 tips to win a positive first impression


Professional workers and businessmen/women usually have a busy time schedule. Sometimes they may not have time to read through so many details, but your decent, charming and bright photos can significantly grasp a positive first impression which is really better than saying thousands of words.
The following 3 simple tips for your profile pictures can intensively catch millions of attention:
1. Highly recommanded to take some gorgeous yet natural photos from professional photographers as your profile pictures as well besides the daily life photos. Professional photographers know how to take beautiful photos since they have good cameras, experience, knowledge and venues. It will definately look better and more respectful than those taken from bathroom mirrors.
2. It is suggested to be natural rather than wearing too much make up and over trendy fashion in photos because generally potential prince charming will feel more comfortable with natural appearance.
3. A confident, sincere smile with lovely eye contact can draw a great attention. It will also make others feel more approachable, friendly and warm.




2012年11月28日星期三

3 kinds of false friends you must fire from your life

I often read blog posts, here at Forbes and on other platforms, that spark further thought. I just read one at Inc.com, by Jeff Haden, about the types of people you should remove from your inner circle if you’re a business owner.











It got me reflecting on the folks I’ve removed from my life over the years (not removed in the Mafioso sense – I mean ‘stopped interacting with’), or those I’ve encouraged others to remove. It might sound callous or draconian, but I’m convinced that life is too short to have people around you on a daily basis who make it more difficult to succeed or to be happy.





Now of course, we all have days when even the folks we’re fondest of – friends, colleagues, family – make us want to tear our hair out. That’s not what I ‘m talking about (that’s life on the planet). I’m talking about those folks who consistently make your life harder or less pleasant.





So, here’s my observation of the three types of people to invite out of your life:





Energy

vampires
. Some people just wear you out; you feel more tired and stressed, less vital after interacting with them. These folks seem to believe that the main job of their friends and colleagues is to help them feel better. I once had a friend who required hours and hours of “processing” – his pain, difficulty, emotional upheaval, the unfairness of his past life: everything needed to be gone over ad infinitim. Sadly, no matter how deeply you listen, no matter how much counsel you offer, no matter how much you put your own needs on the back burner to support these folks, it will not be enough. Think about the friends and colleagues who consistently take more from you than they give back, and ask yourself why you’re still offering yourself to be sucked dry.











I Me Mine: My brother used to be married to someone who expected much more from others, on a daily basis, than she was willing to give. For instance, she had no problem asking someone to babysit for her child, or watch her house, or run an errand for her…but when it came time to reciprocate, somehow it just never seemed possible. When she came to visit, everything had to be oriented to accommodate her: the foods she required, the quietest room with the proper light, the cats farmed out to friends because of her allergies. No such accommodations were possible when others visited her. “I Me Mine” people are the center of their own universe, and if they’re in your life, you are always going to have to work around their needs and preferences. Collaboration, reciprocity and give and take are not part of their vocabulary. Do what you can to minimize your interactions with these folks (although they may let you know in no uncertain terms that you’re being unreasonable or unfair not to be available to fulfill their every whim).











Liars. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me three times – why are you still on the list of people whose calls I return? If someone is consistently unreliable, or tells you things that aren’t true, or says one thing to you and another thing to someone else in order to protect themselves….cut them loose. Liars are the worst. Energy Vampires and I Me Mines are a pain and make your life more difficult – but Liars can create honest-to-goodness legal and moral problems.











The great thing to realize is that you actually have the power to do this. You don’t need have to these people in your life. You can kindly but firmly minimize your interactions with them. And that frees you up to invite wonderful people into your life.






2012年11月27日星期二

How To Marry A Millionaire

By Elite Connections dating expert and CEO Sherri Murphy
My mother always said it’s just as easy to love a rich man as a poor man. But in many women’s eyes it’s easier. If you are looking for ways to meet the millionaire of your dreams. I've been a millionaire matchmaker for 18 years, found a fabulous husband for myself and many of my clients. 

#1 Get an education. The affluent value a good education and if you want to make a man fall in love with you, be able to talk about current events and the arts. It's not all about looks. Haven't you ever seen a woman with a great guy and thought, how in the world did she get him? Now you know!

#2 While you're in school take some classes on business. Pay attention and learn how to run a company. The successful are very interested in money obviously, that's why they have it. If you can discuss business and finances, you can peak his interest. It's never to late to go back to school!

#3 Take an interest in politics because that’s where the money is. Volunteer to help with the next future president or senator. Volunteer to help at a fundraiser. It's fun to work at the silent auction table or check people in. Besides being nice and donating your time you might even meet a fabulous successful single man on this venture.

#4 Be prepared!  You never know if today is the day you’ll walk out and meet Prince Charming. Go to a good salon for a great hair cut and color. Get regular facials, and always have a great manicure and pedicure. Work out daily and if you need to lose weight do it. Stay slim to attract his attention. Look your best everyday!

#5 Dress to impress. Shop wisely and don’t dress sleazy. There's a way to dress sexy but classy and that’s want you want to achieve. Hire a wardrobe consultant if you have to. But get rid of any trashy clothes. Millionaires are not usually going to marry a woman that looks like a club dancer!
#6 You’ve got to go and be where the single millionaire men are. Go to lunch, dinner and fundraisers at places that have the types of men you want to meet. If you live in a crappy area, find a roommate and move to the good side of town.
#7 Last but not least, sign up with a reputable matchmaking agency. And if you do take this step listen to what your matchmaker tells you to do. Meet the men she picks out for you. And if you meet a successful man that likes you, give him a chance. Unless you’ve dated many single millionaire men he might seem odd to you. He could be more confident, busy at work and might not call you as much as you're used to. Get to know him, make a friend and show him what a great girl you are. And above all else do not sleep with him before you get to know him very well!  If you do join our service, at Elite Connections dating is much easier. So take your matchmakers advice and you'll date successful single men and one that you will fall in love with.

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7 Winning Profile Tips for getting more attention

Here are 7 quick tips for getting more attention from your online dating profile. Your mailbox will fill up faster and your chances of finding a connection will jump sky-high.
  1. Write a unique and friendly introductory line: "Looking for hiking partner" or "Seeking a shipmate for sailing and more"
  2. Post at least two current photos: Photos significantly increase responses! Try at least one close-up and one full-body shot for the best results.
  3. Use a positive tone: "I love to learn and meet new people." "Life is an adventure and I would like to share it with someone special."
  4. Keep it simple: Keep your descriptions light and avoid demanding checklists. Try listing only three things you desire in a mate.
  5. Write a short essay, not a book: Four or five sentences is a good goal. Save the details for your dates.
  6. Include a fun hobby note: "I need someone to distract me from the piano." "I love to travel and tend to take too many photographs."
  7. Add your marketing pitch: What makes you unique? Try listing only three things and make them catchy (everyone is smart, outgoing and fun -- how are you different?).

2012年11月26日星期一

Dating Online,3 important tips for an impressive profile


If I can humbly impart any useful advice to the wonderful women and men on this site that will enhance their success rate of actually receiving positive contacts it would be this - in spite of the catch phrase "keep it simple stupid", what works here (since your words are your representative manifesto) is to be detailed (without being redundant), complete (without being overly wordy), funny (without being childish), and emotionally revealing (without being too sappy). Nothing peaks someone's interest (and shows the kind of intention you bring) like a well-thought out and written description of yourself.
Check your spelling! It is quite annoying to those who have spent years achieving advanced education to confront often simple errors - it shows lack of seriousness, for it should mean enough to you to at least spell check and proof read your own work (see what I mean?!).
Finally, neither include photos that require magnifying glasses nor only ones where you are completely hidden behind sunglasses, hats, or other folks. This is show business - not hide business! Flaunt your stuff . . .proudly. The ones who are really interested will definitely contact you - and aren't those the people you'd rather connect with anyway?
I wish all of us buona fortuna in finding new friends, lovers, and hopefully perfect mates!

2012年11月25日星期日

Tips For Date A Single Mom


                          
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A friend of mine is a single mother to an adorable 3 year old boy. She had been dating a guy – let’s call him Jim – for about a month and he hadn’t met her son yet. To prove that he was completely cool with her having a kid, Jim shows up one Saturday afternoon, completely unannounced, with a huge teddy bear for the confused toddler. This adorable little boy looked up at his mother and said, “Mommy… Who is this?” To which my friend responded, “Baby, this is Mommy’s friend Jim. And he was just leaving.”
Now I’m sure that he is a really nice guy. He just doesn’t understand the ins and outs of dating a woman with a child. So to all of the Jim’s out there, here is some advice:
1) You do not decide when it’s time to meet the kids. Single mothers protect their children from guys they just started dating and you should respect that. If your relationship fizzles out a month from now, no mother wants their child saying, “Mommy, where’s your friend Jim? I miss him.” A mom won’t introduce you to her child until she’s certain it will last a while.
2) Respect the rules. All moms have rules, for their children and their boyfriends. Even after a man has met your child, there are lots of rules. My number one rule as a single mother: No sleeping over! Even when my daughter was too young to realize what was going on, no sleeping over. A man who whines about these rules will be shown the door, permanently.
3) Don’t bring a gift every time you come over. This may seem like an odd request, but how many teddy bears do you think a child needs? And you are not Santa! My child should not associate your arrival with presents.
4) Understand, you are not the most important part of your girlfriend’s life. She has prior commitments. No matter how great the relationship is going, you can’t monopolize all of your momma’s time. She has things to take care of. (By things, I mean the beautiful child that she loves more than you. Yes… she loves her baby more than you! Deal with it!)
5) Kill the P.D.A. You might think it’s sweet and flirtatious. Moms think it’s completely inappropriate, especially if their children might see you. A hug good bye is fine. Any more than that, she might slap your hands like you’re a toddler. And you’ll deserve it.
6) Grow up, just a little. We realize you’re still single and having fun. That’s great! But most ladies don’t want a phone call at 3:00am when you’re leaving the bar. The kids went to bed seven hours ago and she’s been asleep since 11pm. Glad you’re having a great night. Tell her about it tomorrow.
7) Respect the Ex. In a perfect break-up, no one ever sees their ex again. When you have children, you see your ex once or twice a week. No matter how much a new boyfriend hates the baby’s daddy, Shut up Jim! This is the father of her child. If you want to have a future with her, you’re going to have to learn to deal with him.
8 ) Have fun! You’re in a great place. You get to be the silly, fun and entertaining one. You don’t have to discipline or change any diapers or argue over nap time. Enjoy it! Because kids are wildly entertaining and will play any game you can make up. A couple hours of hide and seek, and they’ll love you more than a million teddy bears.
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