Often online dates occur quickly after seeing a picture on the Internet.
The idea of meeting that face seems exciting, until you reach the front
door of the bar. Then suddenly your mind goes blank. Thankfully, there
are a few basic ideas that you can keep under your hat to keep a
conversation going and hopefully spark a great connection.
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Travel is not only a safe topic for any type of date, it can
tell you a lot about a person and how well the two of you might
connect. For instance, if your date is into diving the Great Barrier
Reef and you are allergic to salt, this might be the time to reconsider
if he is the man for you.
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Always ask what his or her friends are like. Beware of the
guy or girl that does not hang out with friends of the same sex. The
whole goal of dating is to become someone's best friend. This can be
tricky if there is already competition in this area.
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Tread lightly with this one. Family can have many sore
spots, and a first date is not a good time to get into deep
conversation. This conversation should consist of only basic family
questions, such as how many brothers and sisters does your date have? If
it begins to get deeper than that, you might want to change the
conversation.
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Everyone loves food. This may seem like a dumb question, but
go ahead and ask, you never know what it could lead to. Maybe both of
you love to cook or maybe you will find out that you are both
professionals at ordering out.
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Unless you have met someone who is completely unmotivated,
he or she will want to talk about their future. We all have ideas for
what we would like to do. Even Donald Trump still has ambitions. A lack
of answers to this question could be an immediate red flag.
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Music is a great topic to lighten the mood. We all listen to
music, even if it's not on purpose. If you go anywhere in public, you
listen to music. Your date may not know specific bands, but they will
know styles, and if this topic seems uncomfortable, feel free to add
favorite TV shows and movies into the conversation.
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