There is absolutely nothing wrong with doing some form of millionaire
dating to date wealthy men. In fact, hard wired in most women's DNA is
the fact that they seek a mate who can provide for she and her
offspring. But to date wealthy men, comes a special skill. Millionaire
dating is an art that sometimes takes a total reconstitution if you
don't come from a wealthy background and have never dated wealthy men or
rich prospects.
2013年2月18日星期一
2013年2月17日星期日
Online Dating Tips on What to Talk About
Often online dates occur quickly after seeing a picture on the Internet.
The idea of meeting that face seems exciting, until you reach the front
door of the bar. Then suddenly your mind goes blank. Thankfully, there
are a few basic ideas that you can keep under your hat to keep a
conversation going and hopefully spark a great connection.
Where have you traveled, where would you like to travel?
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Travel is not only a safe topic for any type of date, it can tell you a lot about a person and how well the two of you might connect. For instance, if your date is into diving the Great Barrier Reef and you are allergic to salt, this might be the time to reconsider if he is the man for you.
What are your friends like?
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Always ask what his or her friends are like. Beware of the guy or girl that does not hang out with friends of the same sex. The whole goal of dating is to become someone's best friend. This can be tricky if there is already competition in this area.
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Do you have any brothers or sisters? Tell me about your family
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Tread lightly with this one. Family can have many sore spots, and a first date is not a good time to get into deep conversation. This conversation should consist of only basic family questions, such as how many brothers and sisters does your date have? If it begins to get deeper than that, you might want to change the conversation.
What is your favorite food?
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Everyone loves food. This may seem like a dumb question, but go ahead and ask, you never know what it could lead to. Maybe both of you love to cook or maybe you will find out that you are both professionals at ordering out.
What do you want to do when you grow up?
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Unless you have met someone who is completely unmotivated, he or she will want to talk about their future. We all have ideas for what we would like to do. Even Donald Trump still has ambitions. A lack of answers to this question could be an immediate red flag.
What kind of music fits your groove?
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Music is a great topic to lighten the mood. We all listen to music, even if it's not on purpose. If you go anywhere in public, you listen to music. Your date may not know specific bands, but they will know styles, and if this topic seems uncomfortable, feel free to add favorite TV shows and movies into the conversation.
2013年2月3日星期日
How to Find a Millionaire to Date
As the saying goes, "It's as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a
poor one." While many women (and men) want to marry a millionaire,
meeting a compatible -- and wealthy -- person requires more than good
luck. By combining a number of traits that the wealthy admire, you can
find and possibly marry a millionaire. Many popular TV shows focus on
snaring a wealthy suitor, but finding one in real life can be
challenging, According to Daily Finance; only 4.1 percent of Americans
are millionaires.
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Look classy. Unless you've set your sights on an outrageous
millionaire rock star, a subtle yet chic dress and makeup style will
attract a wealthy man. Wear classic clothing in solid colors that
highlights your body shape and best features. Avoid synthetic fabrics.
Instead wear silk, wool and cotton clothing. If you dye your hair, touch
up roots often and tone down the color to a wheat blonde, warm brown or
other sophisticated shade.
Educate yourself. Contrary to public perception, all rich
men aren't looking for trophy wives or bimbos. Millionaires are
attracted to beauty and brains. Go back to school and take classes in
art, computer science (a lot of millionaires are in the information
technology field), or history. You need more than good looks to date a
millionaire. The ability to talk to a wealthy man on his own level will
help you to distinguish yourself from other women vying for his
attention.
Frequent upscale restaurants and events. Most millionaires
have dinner at Le Cirque in New York City or other five-star restaurants
around the world. Make reservations at a classy eatery, or have a drink
at the bar of a boutique hotel after work. Wealthy men enjoy playing
golf at country clubs or attending the Kentucky Derby at Churchill
Downs. Find out where well-heeled men congregate in your city, or travel
for the weekend to a nearby resort that caters to the wealthy. You may
also want to work in a field where you encounter high-income people
daily, suc as a celebrity assistant, personal shopper or hostess at an
exclusive club.
Perfect your personality. It's no secret that many women
want to marry a millionaire. Unfortunately, most of them think that
looks and flattery alone will get them what they want. But millionaires
want what we all want -- an intelligent, active companion. Golf, ski,
go horseback riding. Increase your social skills and converse with
partygoers and business acquaintances with charm and poise. Present
yourself as a potential partner, not a gold digger.
Contact a millionaire dating service. Sign up with a site
that specializes in pairing women with wealthy men. Most Internet sites
allow women to sign up for free. On certain sites, members may contact
each other directly via email or chat. Some private matchmakers require
that women fill out a detailed information form and send professionally
shot photos before being accepted by the service. Millionaire's Club
(made famous by the Bravo TV show, Millionaire Matchmaker) contacts its
female members when they feel they have a good match for them
2013年1月25日星期五
How to Start Dating After 40
Online dating services are a great
place to start looking for love especially if you're a little shy or have
trouble meeting people at a bar or restaurant. Sites like Match.com, AffluentSingle.com
match people by interests, location, age and more. Help yourself find more
potential matches by including a picture in your profile. For more online
dating networks see the Resource Section below.
Dating takes work and courage so get
out of your comfort zone. Think about your typical day: work, gym, church,
neighborhood coffee shop, take out for dinner. If you follow a routine you
probably see the same people all the time. Changing your habits will help you
meet new people. Try switching gyms or work out at your gym after work instead
of in the morning, go to a new coffee shop and sip your drink at a table
instead of taking it in the car, check out an out-of-the-way restaurant and eat
there instead of getting take out.
Go on a singles vacation and meet as
many other singles as possible. People go on these vacations to meet a partner
so don't be shy. You could go on a singles cruise, stay at a singles resort, or
travel with a large group of other singles. If you don't want to travel totally
alone, convince a single friend to go along too. If you take a friend, just
remember why you're on the SINGLES vacation...you want to meet your long lost
love, so don't spend all your time with your friend. Check out the Resources
Section below for singles vacation ideas.
A good place to look for love is in
your past. Think about a long lost flame, a high school crush or a college
boyfriend that moved away and you lost touch. Attend high school or college
reunions and homecomings and you could reconnect (as long as they're single
too!) with a long lost love. You might even meet someone at a reunion that you
didn't know in school, but now year's later, you're a perfect match!
Market yourself to everyone you know.
Let friends, family, co-workers and neighbors know you're looking for love. Ask
them if they know anyone they could set you up with or introduce you to. If
you're not up for meeting a stranger alone you could always go on a double date
with your mutual friend.
The most important thing about dating
after 40 is to keep an open mind. Try not to be cynical when it comes to
finding love. Be as positive about the experience as you can, no matter how
much you dislike being single or dating. Remember, you need to be happy with
yourself first, before you can be happy with someone else!
Don't force a relationship. If the
spark's not there after 2 or 3 dates, move on. There's no use wasting your time
or the other person's if there's no attraction. The sooner you realize it's not
going to work, the sooner you can get to finding another date who might just be
your perfect match.
2012年12月27日星期四
Dating Chat Tips
online dating |
Getting Started
- Locate a select a chat room based on your interests. Rather than simply conducting an Internet search for "online chat rooms," conduct one for chat rooms specific to your interests. A general chat room search will most likely return the most popular and cluttered singles chat rooms, whereas a detailed search will return chat rooms with users who have interests similar to yours. Try to find a chat room of your favorite movies, authors, sports teams, hobbies or religious beliefs. You can often access chat rooms through official fan websites and message boards, too. Keep in mind that everybody in a chat room may not be looking for dating. They could, in fact, be married or in a relationship and just enjoy chatting with strangers.
Dating Strategy
- Be honest with other people if you wish for them to be honest with you. Represent yourself truthfully. Also, remember that you are talking to strangers on the Internet. You have no idea what they look like or how they really act. Building mental images may only lead to disappointment if you ever meet in real life, for people rarely live up to mental images. Do not upload fake photos of yourself. That is, do not send photos of other people as yourself, and do not send photos that greatly distort your appearance. Flattering photos are fine but misleading ones are not. According to the Online Dating Magazine, misleading photos are probably the No. 1 cause of disappointments in Internet relationships.
If you hit it off with someone in a chat room, set up other online dates, such as playing online games. Become comfortable with one another and talk about how long you expect to communicate before you meet, if at all. When you do meet in person, meet in a public, neutral place where you both can feel comfortable, such as a café, coffee shop or park.
Online Safety
- When communicating online, although it may be exciting talking to people from all over the world, keep in mind that you are talking to strangers. Adhere to Internet safety techniques when chatting. Guard your identity, do not feel pressured to share information, never send money to anyone and do not disclose personal information such as bank account numbers and credit card numbers to anyone. Build a system of trust with your online dating partner by requesting a series of photos from his life. If she only sends you photos that appear to be model photos from the Internet, this could be a dishonesty cue. Also, be aware of inconsistencies in life stories, and do not fall for false emotions, such as proclaimed love at first link.
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2012年12月24日星期一
Online Dating and Initial Contact Tips
require some extra introductory steps before couples get to meet on first dates. Trading emails, information and photos builds a comfort level between singles to ensure they are compatible before they hook up for face-to-face introductions. Safety, sensitivity and timing top the list of online dating and initial contact tips. With millions of singles looking for soul mates, getting swept away with the love bug requires some basic strategies and techniques.
Service
- Select a reputable dating service. Conduct your own online search of public feedback directed toward the services that interest you. Review those agencies' policies toward sharing your confidential information. Some groups allow all your information to be visible to other singles or third parties, so check their online privacy statements. Work with a service that maintains a database with millions of other singles instead of just a couple of hundred prospective matches.
Profile
- Write an original description that sets you apart. Avoid expressions you have heard before. Stand out from the crowd instead of blending in with millions of others searching for love. Steer clear of long lists of hobbies, jobs or favorite artists. Your efforts to sound like someone with varied interests could backfire and unintentionally label you as boring, says author Katherine Dykstra in her online article, 10 Smart Profile Fixes, published on Match.com. Steer clear of ranting against your job, ex-mate or single status in your profile.
Flirt
- Winking, teasing and smiling add up to flirting. Some singles struggle to send out those same vibes over the Internet. Insert humor and sincerity into your emails. Ask fun questions, such as how your match got his beautiful smile, what is his favorite ice cream flavor or where his posted picture was taken.
Timing
- Play the numbers games during this introductory email phase. Restrict yourself to chatting with no more than six prospective matches at a time. Post two headshots and three body shots of yourself because anything less signals that you are hiding something. Swap at least five emails before you offer any personal details about yourself or speak via telephone. Three weeks represents the maximum amount of time to wait to meet someone in person if you live in the same town, but the bottom line is to not meet anyone until you feel comfortable.
Safety
- Guard your personal information until you grow comfortable with someone. This includes your home and work addresses and telephone numbers. Some dating services instruct you to communicate with matches through their service's forums. If a match offers her personal email, explain that you prefer connecting through the service until you learn more about each other. Contact the online dating service if anyone sends offensive messages or requests moneyOnline Datingwww.affluentsingle.com
2012年12月19日星期三
How to Deal With A Broken Heart (For Men)
Many men find that dealing with a broken heart can be just as unbearable as any form of physical pain. Some men who overcome heartbreak will often improve and grow stronger as new relationships form, while others may create an unhealthy obsession with the person who gave them the heartbreak. With the right information you will be able to learn what actions should be taken to efficiently heal from a heartbreak.
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Vent your emotions. Many men will repress their emotions if they are not comfortable crying at the risk of being seen as weak or less masculine. Repressed emotions may keep you in a state of sadness for an even further period of time. Take some time alone to release any emotions you may be feeling from the heartbreak.
Find a way to express how you feel. There are many ways that you can express your feelings, which can help relieve the heartbreak. Some ways include writing in a journal, writing poems, playing a music instrument, drawing art or kickboxing.
Find support in your family and friends. Let them know how you feel and ask them for advice and guidance on how to deal with the heartbreak. Only talk to friends who care and have been known to show support in previous situations.
Take sometime to enjoy your life. Rather than obsessing over how you felt before the heartbreak, make it a goal to find other ways that can help refill joy in your life. Watching a movie, eating at a fine restaurant or meeting up with friends can help you refocus on the positive things going on in your life.
Learn from the heartbreak. Find out what was the cause of the heartbreak and what you could have done differently to help prevent another heartbreak from happening. Becoming aware of the mistakes that were made will make you alert of them in your future relationships.
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